Being A Hottie Is An Option

If you are familiar with any of my previous posts you know that I don't believe that you have to thin or skinny to be attractive or sexy. In order to be a true hottie, you have to be self confident and have a positive self image.

Some lucky folks are born with total self confidence. Others need to make some internal changes in order to boost their self confidence and still, others require some external changes in order to boost their self confidence like losing some weight, a new hair style or some great fitting clothes.

Whichever category you fall into, I suggest that now is the time to begin taking steps to boost your self confidence thereby unleashing your inner and outer Hottie.

The most attractive people are not necessarily the prettiest people. They are the ones who are secure enough and confident enough to make other people feel good when they are around them.
Their positivity is infectious and people, darn near fight over their friendship. We all know people like that. They are the ones who always have a kind word to uplift your spirits when they are around because they feel good about themselves and sincerely, feel good about you too.

They often look great too. They think enough of themselves to take care of their appearance and make sure that they are comfortable with their weight or they take steps to improve it. They usually have a wonderful spouse or mate who wouldn't want to live without them because they appreciate the gem, that they have found, in that person.

Time goes by too quickly to spend it feeling unhappy with your situation. If their are things in your life that you have the power to change than you should change them.

It also feels good to help others. The bible says, "blessed is he who is kind to the needy" Prov. 14:21. Taking the focus off of yourself and assisting someone in need is extremely fulfilling and you can't get any hotter than that.